Chapter 22 of The Good Life Handbook, a modern translation of Epictetus’ Enchiridion, is titled:
“Prepare to Be Laughed At.”
The overall idea is that if you have big goals and are setting out to achieve them, you’ll probably have people taking shots at you, doubting you, and even laughing at you. Ignore it and keep moving. If you’re doing what you feel is right, that’s what really matters.
People may mock what they don’t understand. Sometimes your willingness to pursue something difficult also reminds them of what they aren’t willing to do themselves. Either way, their reaction doesn’t have to determine your direction.
The book goes on to say that the people taking shots at you may eventually come around and even admire what you’re doing. But if you give up because of their criticism, you’ll have been laughed at twice; once for trying, and again for quitting.
Stay the course.
— Bus
3 comments
Jenn Ponci
I find if people are laughing, something triggered them and they have something to learn – or an obligation to teach someone to know better under God. Men being afraid of criticism is unfortunate. I hate when it comes from a place with the intent to sabotage though. The world is ruthless. Being embarrassed means nothing. Whether or not someone’s soul legacy is saved or they live in despair? That’s what really matters.
Raewon807
Awesome ✊️
Now I have to read this book 📖
James P McLaughlin
Someone once told me.. “fuck’em all, short’n tall..!” I’ve held on to that for a long time.
Also one of my favorite Drill Sergeants used to say.. “slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.”
I’ve always loved that.